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Being escapist


The thought prevails...the idea never dies....the attitude transforms....the perceptions palpitate to change..but what makes them do it?....is it passion for doing something? When was the last time you had felt so obsessed with doing something...really possessed to get or do something?...when was the last time you felt like changing the whole world around yourself and start from zilch...from the very zilch ...

All of us...sometime or the other...feel like stopping and re-starting the phenomenon called life ...for the want of that feeling for someone....for getting rid of some memories...sometimes you win...sometimes you lose...escapism starts when you lose...when you lose to keep your head on something or someone ....when you want to do something from heart but forced to something from mind...when you want to relive a portion of past and try changing it...or when you want to let go of your present (at least for a time being) and feel reinvigorated...I call that as escapism...It is not being emotional...it is also not being weak...it is strength...a mental test of one's will power...a force to come to terms with present or future...a phenomenon like Bodhisattva ...a purgation of one's hard feelings (though temporarily in nature) ...

Music: No Music
Mood: Being escapist
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